Erotic massage rituals with penis & vulva massages
with Romaine and Silvan


Are you looking for creative elements to deepen your massage practice? Would you like to expand your knowledge and experience around intimate massages? This one-day workshop follows the “Introductory Massage Ritual” course and opens up new spaces for sensual experience. This is not a beginner’s course and attending the introductory course is certainly helpful. However, we’ve designed the course so that it is also suitable for people with little experience with erotic massage or intimate massage rituals.


We will see together how to create a full erotic massage ritual that you can recreate at home. On top of these basics, we will go more in depth and focus on:
– Additional massage ideas for the intimate area
– Techniques to smoothly move the person receiving on the mat. This creates new opportunities for the recipient to let go and enjoy a wider range of sensual experiences.
– How you can use specific breathing techniques to feel more pleasure (and/or more safety, calmness, letting go, to name just a few)


Of course, communication remains a very important element for us and we will encourage clear communication to enable deeper enjoyment. There will be space to practice feeling and communicating your wishes, limits and needs. This will allow us to create a space as safe as possible.


The day begins with getting to know the group and getting closer to ourselves. After some exercises around the topics of the day and a demo massage, you will be invited to give and receive a massage. We will guide you and support you through the massage with instructions and ideas. Everything is an invitation and as always, we will invite you to check in what feels good for you or not.


In this course, the intimate massage is demonstrated on a penis and a vulva. As a participant, you are invited to be naked during the massage exchange. Of course, we respect your boundaries and you can enjoy the massage while wearing underwear (we will give you ideas to adapt the massage to your needs).


People of the entire gender spectrum and with any sexual orientation are welcome in this course. Registration can only be done in pairs.


FAQ down below!


Date and Time
08.12.24 | 10pm-7pm


CHF 140 pro Person und Workshop
Solipreis CHF 100
Gutverdienende, Vermögende* CHF 180


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Zurich (more info after registration)


The workshop will be offered in English and/or German, upon request from the participants.


Sign up and questions
Registration can only be done in pairs.


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Do we do the workshop in one single, open space room?

Yes, we share one large single room with up to 20 participants. This may be an unusual setting for some people, as you may be witnessing other couples in the room engaging in massages – just as other people may be witnessing you. However, most participants describe the space as very safe and contained, mostly because each couple creates their own massage island without interacting with other people. Being part of a group while massaging only the partner you came with can create a relaxed and playful setting. As facilitators, we are there to hold the space for you and to support you whenever you feel challenged. All steps of the massage ritual are introduced, explained and/or demoed so you get a learning experience as comfortable and secure as possible.

Can I come with my gay / same sex partner?
Hell yes! We truly embrace all sexual orientations and gender identifications.


Can I come when I am on my period?
Yes, of course. The massage ritual will be designed to your personal needs and boundaries. By default, our introductory massage ritual will encompass only outer genital massages anyways. And anyhow, our workshops will absolutely respect your limits no matter what.


Will we be naked?
This depends on you and how you feel about it. Receiving a sensual erotic massage with lots of warm oil probably is most pleasurable with only few or no clothes on at all. But this really depends on you and what level of clothing you feel most comfortable with. When giving a massage, you may want to use your forearms and your chest and other body parts as well to give pleasure to your partner, so being lightly dressed or even completely naked is definitively an option – but not a must. By trend, most people feel comfortable as we put a lot of focus on creating a safe, inclusive space free of body shaming and other unnecessary habits.


What does „erotic“ mean exactly? Will there be live sex?
If you define „sex“ or „erotic“ as PIV (Penis In Vagina), the answer is NO. If you support a wider definition of sex (e.g. that if something turns you on, it is erotic/sexy and thus sex already) then the answer is MAYBE. To be more precise, this is not a live porn workshop. However, for many people, giving or receiving tender, conscious touch can be a huge turn on.


Do people have orgasm in your workshop?
Yes, orgasms do happen from time to time (hurray!) – but we don’t seek them, as much as we don’t restrict them. Most people probably walk out without having had orgasms (hurray too!) and this is all perfectly fine. However, we believe that by becoming more aware of their body, by using breath, movement and sound to steer their energy level (which is part of our curriculum), people over time enlarge their capacity for orgasms (HURRAY!!).


Can I drop out if I don’t like it or if it gets too much for me?
Yes. We care a lot about self care, and nobody will make you stay if you don’t feel like it.


Do we have to be a romantic couple?
Well, why not. Most participants probably are. Although you clearly don’t have to be in a romantic couple in the classical sense of the term. Maybe you want to come with an intimate friend, a lover, a new date, etc.


Can I bring my toys?
Yes! The workshop offers space to use your toys. However, a lungi or sarong will do the trick for most people. Also, it is important to note that the idea is to focus on your quality of touch rather than toys.


What oil works best?
We like coconut oil. However, some folks hate it. So bring what you like. Baby oil works well too. For the intimate massage, a silicone-based lubricant works best, as its lubrification feature lasts almost forever.


I usually get cold feet during a massage. What can I do?
Keep wearing your socks (sexy 🙂 ) or bring an electrified heating blanket (it costs about CHF 70.- and is the secret weapon of many erotic masseurs and masseuses).


What other questions do you have in mind?
We are more than happy to answer your questions. Drop us an email